I bought some new things yesterday... a bag of cute goodies.. for £6, clips, earings, flowers, bows.. ahwwwww :) i'm trying to post a pic but my blackberry is being weird!! ...... FINALLY :):):)
errrrrrrr im feeling sort of fuzzy/happy/weird...... people in my class are horrific I'm starting to despise them; they are full of opinions one particular girl was really horrible to me and made me want to punch her or cry LOL im not gona say what she said cus its IRRELIVENT!! and im soo over it :P then .. THENNN on the way home she was clearly upset about her ex who dumped her and is with another girl and she was almost in tears.. so i offered my advice and listened.. but when i offered it she a) either didnt listen b) said what u on about :S cus she didnt like what i said which was THE TRUTH and c) talked OVER ME.. grrrrrrrr im not gona bother with HER AGAIN... anyway so we were in psychology today and the lecturer whose normally impartial said 'I DONT CARE IF YOUR A CHRISTIAN ITS A FACT EVERY MAN HAS THE POTENTIAL TO CHEAT DOWN TO ANIMAL INSTINCTS' and as you can imagine this caused quite a stir in the class..
... but I used to say the same thing.. ive cheated on people before and theyve cheated on me.. but normally when Ive cheated Ive had specific reasons.. never because of lack of self control Ive actually known and chosen to do it .. im not makin excuses.. but anyway I was talking to my friend who I bumped into shopping earlier and we chatted for bloody ages.. hes not religious but hes spiritual (not saying what he practises lol this isnt about judging hes spent his life in celibacy......... he chooses to.. i admire this guy he has more self control than anyone ive ever met!) and we got onto this GOD KNOWS HOW. something about animals i think lol... but he agreed and I agreed.. and its a sad fact but even he said that men are driven by their genitals..... men always say.. that sex is seperated from emotion.. well it is for them.. and sometimes it is for women 2.. but mostly its not. so therefore if sex is seperated from emotion its difficult for women to understand that.. a girl in my class slapped her bf for going PHWOAR about a celeb.. but all blokes do it i think? LOL my bf does it HAHA! but if u think about it its a person that they ultimately want to 'poke' lmao...... (EWWWWWW) so ultimately being the wife for example.. your the emotional factor but some girl could come a long and throw themselves at her and my friend said males and a species find it extremely hard because they think of it as passing up the opportunity.. anyway he said obviously not all men cheat obviously there are exceptions and some men just never get 'the opportunity'... PLUS that means men are the weaker sex cus they have it programmed in them LOL joking :P
so in a way i think its worse if women cheat.. because being a woman I know we aren't built the way men are? and why are they built like that? maybe because theyre not meant to be monogamous who knows? who bloody knows? we can see a man and think WOW OMG i want that .. but we literally mean want it as a whole not want to .. u know ahem. lol .. so women cheat for emotional factor i think or theyre looking for the Bigger better deal BBD a man who will protect u more.. etc etc.. so in a way i think thats worse... cus men say 'SHE WAS JUST A SH*AG, A BIT ON THE SIDE.. ITS YOU I LOVE' etc etc...
i think people who think someone would never in a billion years cheat is naive... and HEY if love is really UNCONDITIONAL i guess youd forgive your partner wouldnt you.......... to be honest with you.. i think id forgive someone if they cheated on me.. depending on the circumstances obviously.. if it was an affair hell no.. you can think im a mug for saying this but i think it takes a stronger person to stay after knowing that all the trust has been broken .. its easier to walk away? Cheryl and posh aint stooopid:p mind u.. im picturing it now and i think it would go MENTAL on the person lmfao so i cant really say what id do until im in the position, i said id forgive before.. and i didnt.. i finished it? so i dont know what the hell im talking about LOL
(i know a friend of mine who has seen guys and found them UNattractive but my friend is single at the time.. shes been jelous about the way this bloke has been banging on about his 'amazing gf' so she goes on some disgusting power trip and does evetrything in her power to sleep with the guy.. for some sort of 'HA i made u cheat! even though u said u loved her' i think?
and she always manages it.. even the really strong guy didnt resist.. weird isnt it? anyway i felt really bad for his gf.. she actaully was amazing and loved him so much.. and he didnt even tell her.. she found out.. and guess what she forgave him...easily apparently? my friend thought HA mug but no she is a strong person.. this guy hates my mate now for wrecking his life.. but he is too blame too.. and my mate says 'if it wasnt her it wuda been some other girl given the opportunity' ............URGH makes me feel sick:S EVIL.COM anyway IN THE END this girl even though she forgave him the trust was gone and she felt so paranoid it cud never be the same and now he spends his life in his house smoking weed depressed whilst shes off with the BBD! so i reckon you just gota keep going till you find the exception and keep ur god damn fingers crossed that u got the expection now! lol
SO ALL IN ALL FOLKS.. ALL BECOME GAY. nah I joke :$
( i dont HALF go off on a tangeant this was supposed to be about hair bows :( lmao i dont half think of some deep sheeeeeeeeeee-at i tell ya )
p.s I love & trust my boyfriend. i am talking in general here..LOL just incase u think im some weird feminist:S i waffle rofl
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